Stop Hating Yourself. The 5 Things That Can Destroy A Man’s Confidence.

Confidence.  It seems the more people I talk to, the more I realize that the underlying issue of a lot of their problems is the lack of confidence. I have personally struggled with a lack of confidence in one way or another, and it has greatly affected the way I did things in my life.  My…

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The 8 Dating and Relationship Tips I Would Give My 18 Year Old Self.

If I could go back in time and find an empty room with two chairs, one for me and one for 18-year-old me, what would I tell him?  I have experienced so many things since then that I really would have a hard time choosing where to start. See, I grew up in a home…

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Chill out man!! 5 Ways To Take Control Of Your “Uncontrollable” Anger.

Dictionary .com describes anger as a noun meaning “a strong feeling of displeasure and belligerence aroused by a wrong; wrath;” Anger is something we have all experienced in life, and personally, I can tell you many stories where my anger got the best of me.  Times where I was let down by somebody I considered a friend or betrayed by a woman I was in a…

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SHUT UP ALREADY! Lies and the Dangers of Poisonous Speech.

There is a saying that I use to hear a lot growing up, and I’m sure you have heard as well. “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.”  While often repeated, that phrase couldn’t be further from the truth.  I can remember many times when words seemed to cut…

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5 lessons I learned from 16 Years of Being a Single Father.

5 Lessons I Learned From 16 Years of Being a Single Father.

This week my youngest son turned 18 years old.  In the eyes of the world, he is an adult. To me, he will always be that little 2-year-old boy that asks too many questions.  I’ve been a single dad for over 16 years now and I can it’s truly been a long road full of…

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The Law of Because and Effect. Why Every Decision You Make Requires A Sacrifice.

What are you willing to sacrifice? What are you willing to sacrifice now so that you don’t have to sacrifice later? Or, what are you enjoying now that you will eventually pay for later? Every action we take, every decision we make, will produce results whether good or bad. Every decision involves giving up something…

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A Message To Conservative Evangelical Christians. Your Racism Is Showing.

Allow me to start out by saying I abhor racism. Few things make me as angry as when people are discriminated against or attacked purely because of the color of their skin or where they were born. Racism is without a doubt the ugliest thing man has ever created.   I have many friends of different ethnicities…

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The Truth About Tithing And How Your Church Is More Than Likely Lying to You.

Warning, this article will have a lot of scripture references. But this is important to educate you on how deep the manipulation goes and what most churches refuse to tell you.  I recently wrote an article called “How Growing Up Apostolic Almost Made Me Turn From Christianity” where I outlined many of the things I…

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11 Toxic Women To Avoid Getting In A Relationship With.

  I have had my share of difficulty when it comes to dating, as I’m sure many so-called “Nice Guys” have.  You’ve heard the saying “Good girls like bad boys”.  First of all, Good Girls don’t like Bad Boys.  Bad Girls like Bad Boys.  These are women that may be very pretty, very popular, and…

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The 4 Lies Nice Guys Believe That Cause Them To Always Finish Last.

The 4 Lies Nice Guys Believe That Will Always Cause Them To Finish Last.

When I said I was writing an article about nice guys, many of my women friends asked why?  I was told things like “No, I like nice guys”, or “What’s wrong with being a nice guy?”.  After I gave them a brief rundown on what the article entailed, however, they agreed that I needed to…

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