The 3 Dangerous Effects of Pornography Addiction.

There are some that say you cannot become addicted to pornography.  That watching pornography is a normal part of a boy becoming a man.  I don’t have to tell how flawed that thinking is.  Pornography is as addicting as drugs or alcohol.  Marriages, careers, and reputations have all been destroyed due to the effects of…

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The 4 Lies Nice Guys Believe That Cause Them To Always Finish Last.

The 4 Lies Nice Guys Believe That Will Always Cause Them To Finish Last.

When I said I was writing an article about nice guys, many of my women friends asked why?  I was told things like “No, I like nice guys”, or “What’s wrong with being a nice guy?”.  After I gave them a brief rundown on what the article entailed, however, they agreed that I needed to…

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Your Arrogance is Betraying You. Recognizing The 6 Signs of Poor Self-Esteem.

Growing up I knew a kid that loved to brag.  He was the type of guy that had to be around the popular kids all the time in an attempt to boost his own ego.  He was what I would call a “Fair Weather Friend”, meaning that he would come hang out at our house…

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Stop Hating Yourself. The 5 Things That Can Destroy A Man’s Confidence.

Confidence.  It seems the more people I talk to, the more I realize that the underlying issue of a lot of their problems is the lack of confidence. I have personally struggled with a lack of confidence in one way or another, and it has greatly affected the way I did things in my life.  My…

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5 lessons I learned from 16 Years of Being a Single Father.

5 Lessons I Learned From 16 Years of Being a Single Father.

This week my youngest son turned 18 years old.  In the eyes of the world, he is an adult. To me, he will always be that little 2-year-old boy that asks too many questions.  I’ve been a single dad for over 16 years now and I can it’s truly been a long road full of…

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Why Creating A Vision Is The First Step To Becoming An Authentic Man.

A few years ago I worked as a PC tech at a Non-Profit which supported low-income households by providing daycare, kindergarten, and adult education services.  I was told that one of the classrooms had a computer that wasn’t working so I had to go check it out.  I arrived at the classroom and as usual,…

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