My One Simple Rule For Letting Go Of The Past And Start Enjoying Life. Terrellcotton.com

My One Simple Rule For Letting Go Of The Past And Start Enjoying Life.

This post is going to be short and to the point. Not my usual 2000+ words so it shouldn’t take long to read through. We’ve all had good and bad life experiences. Being a 40 something single man I’ve had my share of good and bad relationships. I’ve had good friends and fake friends, right…

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Your Arrogance is Betraying You. Recognizing The 6 Signs of Poor Self-Esteem.

Growing up I knew a kid that loved to brag.  He was the type of guy that had to be around the popular kids all the time in an attempt to boost his own ego.  He was what I would call a “Fair Weather Friend”, meaning that he would come hang out at our house…

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The 3 Things I Did To Get Over My Negative Past And Focus On A Positive Future.

The 3 Things I Did To Get Over My Past And Focus On Positive Thinking.

“You’re setting yourself up for failure.” “Do you leave your brain at the door when you come in?” “You are so dense” “Oh, he’s only an amateur” For years I let these stinging words from my past affect me.   I would look back at my life and dwell on the mistakes I’ve made and the…

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Stop Hating Yourself. The 5 Things That Can Destroy A Man’s Confidence.

Confidence.  It seems the more people I talk to, the more I realize that the underlying issue of a lot of their problems is the lack of confidence. I have personally struggled with a lack of confidence in one way or another, and it has greatly affected the way I did things in my life.  My…

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Chill out man!! 5 Ways To Take Control Of Your “Uncontrollable” Anger.

Dictionary .com describes anger as a noun meaning “a strong feeling of displeasure and belligerence aroused by a wrong; wrath;” Anger is something we have all experienced in life, and personally, I can tell you many stories where my anger got the best of me.  Times where I was let down by somebody I considered a friend or betrayed by a woman I was in a…

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SHUT UP ALREADY! Lies and the Dangers of Poisonous Speech.

There is a saying that I use to hear a lot growing up, and I’m sure you have heard as well. “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.”  While often repeated, that phrase couldn’t be further from the truth.  I can remember many times when words seemed to cut…

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The Law of Because and Effect. Why Every Decision You Make Requires A Sacrifice.

What are you willing to sacrifice? What are you willing to sacrifice now so that you don’t have to sacrifice later? Or, what are you enjoying now that you will eventually pay for later? Every action we take, every decision we make, will produce results whether good or bad. Every decision involves giving up something…

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The 5 Steps I Take to Break Bad Habits.

The 5 Steps I Take to Break Bad Habits.

  We all have habits we wish we could get rid of. Those things we want to stop doing, but seemingly can’t.  Some of us want to stop eating junk food and live a healthier life. Others want to stop drinking or doing drugs.  For many men, it’s an addiction to porn they want to…

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What Playing Video Games Taught Me About Entrepreneurship.

The 5 Things Playing Video Games Taught Me About Entrepreneurship.

I know some may be thinking “What can playing a video game teach me about life and entrepreneurship”?  When I say “What I learned from video games”, I don’t mean games like Grand Theft Auto where you learn to steal cars and kill random hookers.  The games I’m talking about are online role-playing games, particularly Dark…

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The 5 Rules of Knowing and Defeating Your Enemies.

An Enemy is described as, “a person who feels hatred for, fosters harmful designs against, or engages in antagonistic activities against another; an adversary or opponent.” An enemy can also be called an “adversary” which is described as:  “something harmful or prejudicial:” We have many things in life that are enemies.  Anything or anyone that…

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